Marriage is the single most important
thing in the world.
Ever wonder why Medicine, Technology, Entertainment, Construction, and any other discipline you can think of, all improve significantly every generation, but Marriage gets worse significantly every generation?
The Space Shuttle blows up killing 7. The energy and brain power devoted to finding all the pieces and solving the problem was astronomical.
A killer is found after 35 years. The perseverance is beyond impressive.
Marriages get worse each generation, and the divorce rate skyrockets. Marriage is the factory of the human race, yet we don't investigate to see how we can improve it.
Peal of the orange ( concept under construction ).
Everyone has baggage (issues from the past or from childhood that are still bothering us). Prior to engagement couples should be encouraged to go to Pre-Marital counseling where they both reveal their baggage to each other.
Expose this baggage before the engagement. The right match of a couple will fall in deeper love.
Expose the same baggage after marriage. The same couple may start having problems.
My 3 children got this advice from me in their pre- teens, now they can preach it. If we all do this simple thing, we will "Significantly improve the world".
Marriage is not the place for trial and error, but we are treating it that way. We have the technology to put a 7 story tall air plane up in the air. I'm sure we can do better to keep our children's incubator called Marriage from so much damage.
Marriage license should mean more than proof that we paid a few dollars to the government Why
are we joking around with our children's lives? The home of a bad marriage is a
factory making sick, unproductive, trouble making miserable humans. I know
that's not 100% true but the broken home is the incubator for
unproductive trouble makers and unhealthy people who end up costing the
tax payers instead of helping pay them. They rape, rob, murder and are
creators of stress for the rest of the population as a whole. I'm
generalizing of course, some upstanding citizens have come from broken
unhappy homes, but I know you agree that the world would be a better
place, less costly and more productive if not for all the ramifications
of bad marriages. We need more police because of bad marriages. You get the idea. Bottom
line: A bad marriage is like a factory making bad product. Why are we
putting up with this? Just the financial toll by itself is staggering
if you really think about it.
We would have more productive people, while having less trouble makers.
We would be safer
We would pay less taxes
We would need less police
The Money saving ramifications is not small. It would make a profound difference in the economy in many ways.
is it that when we make a mistake we learn from it, but with marriage
we don't? ---- Because we have freedom. We give everyone a change to
go to the school of hard knocks with almost everything. I think when
it comes to marriage, we need to put our foot down. We don't let
people drive and hit a few people before they learn do we? Why do that
Bad marriages are the core reason for many problems in the world, including financial which is an issue right now.
HIS elite servant,
Behtaj Baruch Amiri
Founder: Art of Thought Solutions™